Who Determines Your Self-Worth?

One of the most empowering beliefs you need to have to live your very best life is that you are valuable and worthy. 

Self-worth, which is your internal sense of being good enough and being loveable is important because it determines and impacts the quality of your life and all of your relationships. So, who determines your self-worth? 

You determine and are 100% responsible for creating your self-worth, which is heavily influenced by who you are on the inside, your perceptions, values, beliefs, life experiences, the quality of your relationships, and mental and physical well-being. 

If you have good self-worth, you feel secure, have a sense of control over yourself and your environment, are resilient, and confidently living an authentic soul-aligned life.

If you have a low self-worth know that it may be stemming from your stressful life experiences and events like abusive relationships, financial struggles, and unhealed and unresolved trauma from your childhood when you were very easily influenced by your guardians and peers.

So, you may wonder how you can develop a good self-worth despite the type of life you have lived, are living, or will live in the future. Let’s discuss that next.

How Do You Develop Your Self-Worth?

We live in a world that often makes us feel like we have to do more, achieve more, or be more to be considered worthy. The truth is the fact that you are already worthy because you exist and are here on this earth at this moment. 

You do not need to earn it or prove it. Let’s discuss 8 reasons to remind yourself why your worth is undeniable just as you are, right here, right now.

You Are A Unique Expression Of Life

You are an Individualized expression of your creator. There is no one else like you. Your thoughts, feelings, experiences, and energy are unique in the universe. 

Your individuality is a gift to the world, and just by being you, you bring something irreplaceable to the collective. 

You Were Born With A Purpose

The fact that you are alive means you are part of a greater design. You do not need to search for worthiness; it’s already inside you, simply because you have a role to play in this world. 

Your purpose is not about doing; it is about being. Your existence is meaningful just as it is.

Spend your precious time discovering your purpose, developing and deploying it in service of others. If you did not have a purpose you would not be here. 

Just being here on this earth at this moment should serve as your proof without a doubt that you are worthy, enough, and matter. 

You Are Connected To Something Bigger

Whether you call it the universe, spirit, or life itself, you are connected to a greater source. That connection alone is proof of your inherent worth. You are part of the infinite web of life, and your presence adds to the beauty and flow of the universe.

You can connect to and access your creator’s divine intelligence, strength, and power.  You are a powerful, wise, divine soul. You were created with everything that you need to fulfill your purpose on this earth.

You Are Constantly Evolving

Every day, you grow, learn, and evolve. Your journey alone is a testament to your value, regardless of where you are on that path. Your self-worth does not depend on reaching some ultimate goal. It is in the process, in the unfolding of your life.

Any challenges and difficulties that you overcome are developing and preparing you so that you can fulfill your purpose in a bigger and better way because ultimately every soul is here to grow and then to serve others. 

You Hold Space For Others

Just by being yourself, you influence others. You provide comfort, love, and support to those around you, whether you realize it or not. Your energy, your presence, and your love touch the lives of others in ways that can’t be measured. That impact makes you incredibly worthy.

When you live a soul-aligned life all living things including when in your field of energy and within your aura feel better because they feel peace, love, joy, and harmony which are your soul qualities. You can impact people without saying a word and just by being.

You Have The Power To Create And Heal

Every thought, action, and word you share has the power to create something new or heal something broken. That creative force inside you is a testament to your value. 

Whether you create art, foster relationships, or simply offer a kind word, you are constantly creating beauty and healing in the world.

Just like your creator, you are here to create.  Create unique solutions to people’s problems based on your purpose and the unique gifts that your creator has blessed you with and make this world better because you came here.  

You Experience Life In Your Own Way

Your experiences, emotions, and perspectives are uniquely yours. No one else can live life through your eyes, and that’s what makes your presence here so valuable. The way you navigate life your joys, and struggles adds a distinct flavor to the world. That makes you irreplaceable.

No one else can come up with solutions to some people’s problems and you are here to help. They will only resonate with you and you have been given unique gifts by your creator to help you do so. 

You Deserve Love Just By Being

You do not need to do anything to earn love. You deserve love simply because you exist. The very fact that you are here means you are worthy of love, from yourself and others. 

Loving yourself starts with knowing that you are worthy of love for no other reason than being alive. This acceptance is the foundation of self-worth.

Always know without a doubt that you are worthy, and enough no matter what you look like, including your color, gender, status, title, or race, know that you matter and every soul matters. 

In conclusion, you now know that you determine and are responsible for creating your self-worth which is very heavily influenced by who you are on the inside, your perceptions, values, beliefs, life experiences, relationships, mental, and physical health. 

You also know how to develop your worthiness which is by reminding yourself that you are a unique expression of life, were born with a purpose, connected to something bigger, constantly evolving, can hold space for others, have the power to create and heal, experience life in your own way and deserve love just by being.

I hope you now know without a doubt that you don’t need to strive for worthiness; it’s already yours. It’s time to stop doubting yourself and start embracing the truth that you are enough. Your existence has meaning, your presence is valuable, and your worth is infinite. 

Remember, you are worthy of love, peace, and happiness just as you are. Until next time, stay mindful and stay empowered.

Next, read can childhood affect your adulthood? for further helpful insights and tips.

Can Money Be The Key To Happiness?

Many people in our society obsess over obtaining and making money at the expense of everything else in life. Most children are also taught and guided to pick careers that pay the most money. Can money be the key to your happiness?

Happiness is not a destination. It is a state and a way of being and therefore you can choose to be happy despite what the outer circumstances of your life look like. 

Money can however contribute to your happiness and can make you feel secure and stable in your ability to fulfill your basic needs and reduces the stress and anxiety of being in worry and survival mode when you feel that you do not have enough or when you experience any kind of crisis, set back or negative life events

The obsession and prioritization of money above everything else in life however can destroy and negatively impact every area of your life including your health and all your precious relationships like the one with yourself, your creator, and your loved ones. 

You may be wondering whether there are other specific ways that money can help with your happiness. Let’s discuss 8 ways that you can create happiness with your money and riches. and 

8 Ways To Create Happiness With Your Money

Here are 8 incredible ways that you being rich can bless the people around you, make a huge difference in the world, and contribute to you being much happier. 

Get ready to discover how your journey to abundance isn’t just about you — it’s about transforming lives, creating opportunities, and leaving a legacy.

Helping Friends And Family

Your money and riches gives you the ability to help those closest to you — paying off debts, funding education, or even offering financial support in times of need. 

You can improve the lives of friends and family by providing security and peace of mind. Your wealth can bring comfort and relief to your loved ones, ensuring they thrive alongside you.

Setting A Positive Example

As a wealthy individual, you can demonstrate how to build and maintain wealth ethically and responsibly. 

People can look up to you, and you can use your influence to show how wealth can be used for good by embodying generosity and wisdom, you inspire others to pursue success with integrity.

Education And Mentorship

With wealth, you have the ability to fund scholarships, educational programs, or mentorship initiatives. You can help shape the next generation by offering access to education and opportunities they might not have otherwise. 

Your wealth can provide life-changing opportunities, empowering young minds to reach their full potential.

Job Creation

When you are wealthy, you can create jobs through businesses, investments, or entrepreneurial ventures. 

This helps others by providing stable employment, improving their quality of life, and boosting the local economy. You can build your empire and help others achieve financial security and independence.

Investing In Innovation

By using your wealth to invest in startups or innovative ideas, you help bring new technologies, products, and services to life. This can improve industries, solve problems, and enhance daily life for millions of people. 

Your investment can accelerate progress and introduce solutions that benefit society at large.

Improving Communities

You can use your financial resources to develop and support local communities by funding infrastructure projects, healthcare initiatives, or cultural events. Whether it’s building a park or sponsoring a community program, your wealth can create a better environment for everyone. 

Your contribution can enhance the quality of life in the communities you live and care about.

Supporting Charities And Causes

Wealth allows you to donate generously to charitable organizations, causes, or projects that you care about. Whether it’s fighting poverty, supporting education, or funding healthcare, your donations can create real, lasting change. 

Your contributions can help improve communities and uplift those who are less fortunate.

Providing Access To Resources

With wealth, you can create or fund projects that give people access to essential resources like clean water, food, healthcare, and housing. In many parts of the world, these are critical needs that can be met through financial generosity. 

Your wealth can help meet basic human needs, providing dignity and improving the lives of countless individuals.

In conclusion, you now know that happiness is not a destination. It is a state and a way of being, and therefore you can choose to be happy despite what the outer circumstances of your life look like. 

Money can however contribute to your happiness because it can help you feel secure and stable in your ability to fulfill your basic needs and reduces the stress and anxiety of being in the worry and survival mode when you feel that you do not have enough.

You also learned 8 ways that you can bless others with your riches and increase your happiness like helping friends and family, setting a positive example, providing education and mentorship, creating jobs, investing in innovation, improving communities, supporting charities and causes, and providing access to essential resources. 

These 8 ways show that being rich is about more than personal gain — it’s about empowering, supporting, and uplifting others. Your financial success can truly transform lives and make a lasting impact on the world!

Next, read can wealth make you happy? for further helpful insights and tips.

What Does Your Higher Self mean?

Your life will always reflect who you identify as because it guides your perspective, beliefs, thoughts, feelings, words, actions, character, habits, and eventual destiny. 

The more you can be and act like your higher self the more authentically successful you will be and the deeper fulfillment you will experience. How can you do that? What does your higher self exactly mean?

Your higher or greater self is your best self, which is that part of you that is most like your creator and is aligned with your true essence, soul qualities, and values: love, purity, divinity, peace, power, wisdom, abundance, and joy. 

So, you may be wondering why else it is important to identify and live as your higher self. Let’s discuss that next. 

Why Being Your Higher Self Is Important?

Imagine living a life where you are not defined by what you own or what you do, but by who you truly are at your core. In a world that often tells us to achieve more, have more, and then maybe we’ll become more, there is a powerful shift waiting to happen. 

This shift is about embracing a higher self-identity first—an identity that transcends material possessions and achievements. Here are 10 reasons why it’s crucial to be before you do and to do before you have. 

Foundation Of Purpose

Starting with a higher self-identity gives you a strong sense of purpose. When you know who you are, your actions and goals become aligned with a higher purpose, making your life more meaningful and focused.

Instead of identifying and valuing some of the objective identities like I am a mother, daughter, sister, or doctor, you must identify with your subjective identity as a soul that is here to fulfill a purpose. 

Take the time to sit in solitude and listen to your soul, discover your purpose, develop it, and then deploy it in service of others.  

Inner Strength And Resilience

A higher self-identity provides inner strength and resilience. When challenges arise, you draw from a deep well of self-belief and inner power, allowing you to overcome obstacles with grace and confidence.

Authentic Living

Embracing your identity first ensures that you live authentically. Instead of chasing external validation or societal expectations, you live true to yourself, creating a life that reflects your deepest values and desires.

Clarity In Decision-Making

With a strong sense of self, your decisions become clearer and more aligned with your true path. You’re less likely to be swayed by external pressures or fleeting desires, making choices that genuinely serve your higher purpose.

You will know the right decisions that you need to make for your purposeful life and you will be confident enough to make them. Your purpose is between you and your Creator.

Lasting Fulfillment

When you start with being, your fulfillment is not tied to what you have or what you achieve. Instead, it comes from within, creating a deep, lasting sense of satisfaction that external success alone can’t provide.

You will be living your fulfilling life from inside out instead of outside in and letting the circumstances of your life dictate what you do with your life.  

Attraction Of Abundance

A higher self-identity naturally attracts abundance. When you embody confidence, self-worth, and a higher purpose, opportunities and resources flow to you more effortlessly, as you align with the energy of abundance.

Money will also flow to you as a by-product of you fulfilling your purpose that you have been trusted with by your creator and serving others by using your unique gifts. 

Abundance is your birthright as you are like your higher self it will start flowing to you as you fulfill your purpose and stay on your true path. 

Positive Impact On Others

By living from your highest self, you inspire and uplift those around you. Your god-like identity becomes a beacon for others, encouraging them to find and live from their true selves, creating a ripple effect of positivity.

You will serve and make people feel good just by being in your aura and energy when you start acting and embodying your higher self. 

Freedom From Materialism

When your identity isn’t tied to possessions or achievements, you free yourself from the trap of materialism. 

You understand that your worth is not determined by what you own, allowing you to live a more liberated and joyful life.You will not feel the need to constantly be hustling and grinding to acquire materialistic things to prove to people that you’re worthy.  

You will know that your true success and fulfillment do not come from what you own. Your true happiness, authentic success, and deep fulfillment will come from being on your purposeful path.

Enhanced Creativity And Innovation

A strong sense of identity fosters creativity. When you know who you are and what you stand for, you are more likely to think outside the box, innovate, and bring unique ideas to life, driven by your inner vision.

Your creator created this earth, and you. You are just like your creator and have come on this earth to create solutions for the people that you are here to serve. 

You will be able to innovate because when you are coming from your higher self you will have the inner vision of what to do because have been given the wisdom to fulfill your purpose. 

Alignment With Universal Laws

A higher self-identity aligns you with universal laws such as the law of attraction and the law of cause and effect.

When you start with being, you naturally attract experiences, relationships, and outcomes that resonate with your highest self, leading to a life of harmony and flow.

You will also know that you are 100% responsible for what happens to you so the more you vibrate at a higher frequency by making gratitude a regular practice, living mindfully, and meditating the more you will attract people circumstances resources that are also like-minded and your life will be harmonious, you will be in flow as you fulfill your purpose. 

In conclusion, you now know that your higher or greater self is your best self, which is that part of you that is most like your creator and is aligned with your true essence, soul qualities, and values: love, purity, divinity, peace, power, wisdom, abundance, and joy. 

You also learned 10 reasons why it is important to identify as your higher self and live a life that is aligned to it like it is the foundation of purpose, gives you inner strength and makes you more resilient, helps you live authentically, and gives you clarity for decision making. 

It also gives you lasting fulfillment, helps you attract abundance, helps you make a positive impact on others, gives you freedom from materialism, gives you enhanced creativity and innovation abilities, and helps you live in alignment with the universal laws.

When you live from a place of being, everything else falls into place. The things you do become more aligned with your true self, and what you have becomes a natural extension of who you are.

This god-like identity isn’t about perfection; it’s about realizing the power within you to shape your life from the inside out. As you move forward, remember that your journey begins with being. So, embrace who you are at your core, and let that guide everything else. 

Next, read what is high vibration living for further helpful insights and tips.

Why Am I Not Mentally Strong?

All of us, thankfully, have many exciting happy life moments that we get to celebrate like birthdays, graduations, weddings, etc. 

We all also experience several challenging and stressful moments in life like the death of a loved one, job loss, divorce, etc. Some people are mentally stronger and can handle these tougher life moments better than others. Why? 

One of the questions that many of us have possibly asked ourselves when experiencing a rough moment is why am I not mentally strong?

You may not feel mentally strong in a stressful moment because you may never have been taught how to sit with the painful feelings and emotions, and process and manage them.

A family history of mental illness and your personality traits can also affect and contribute to how much mental strength you may feel that you hav

Can I Be Mentally Strong?

You most definitely can train yourself to be mentally stronger because mental strength is not something you’re born with; it is a skill that anyone can build over time. Let’s discuss how to be mentally strong next.

How To Be Mentally Strong?

Mental strength isn’t just about avoiding stress — it’s about learning how to manage it. 

Here are 8 powerful ways mentally healthy people manage themselves in any situation, even under stress as they navigate even the toughest situations. 

These are the secrets to staying calm, resilient, and in control, no matter the storm.

They Reframe Negative Thoughts

Mentally strong people practice cognitive reframing, which means they look at situations from a different perspective. Instead of focusing on the negative, they find a lesson or a growth opportunity. This helps them maintain control over their mindset.

Instead of thinking, “This is too hard,” they shift to, “This is challenging, but I can learn something valuable from it.”

They Set Clear Boundaries

Knowing when to say “no” is a skill. Mentally strong individuals do not overextend themselves or take on more than they can handle. They protect their energy by setting healthy boundaries in personal and professional relationships.

They will decline an extra work assignment if they know it will overwhelm them, prioritizing their well-being.

They Practice Self Compassion

Rather than beating themselves up for mistakes or failures, mentally healthy people treat themselves with kindness. They acknowledge their imperfections and give themselves room to grow without being harsh.

After making a mistake at work, instead of self-blame, they focus on what they can do better next time and move forward.

They Focus On What They Can Control-

Mentally strong people do not waste energy worrying about things outside their control. They identify what is within their influence and channel their efforts into those areas.

If they are stuck in traffic, instead of stressing about being late, they will focus on how to make the best use of their time, like listening to a podcast or planning the rest of their day.

They Engage In Mindfulness And Meditation

Staying present in the moment helps mentally healthy individuals manage stress. Practices like meditation and mindfulness allow them to calm their thoughts and focus on the here and now, instead of worrying about the past or future.

When feeling overwhelmed, they might take a 5-minute break to practice deep breathing or do a short meditation session to re-center themselves.

They Maintain A Growth Mindset

Mentally strong people believe that challenges are growth opportunities. They understand that setbacks and obstacles are part of the learning process and are willing to adapt and grow through difficulties.

After receiving criticism, they do not take it personally. Instead, they reflect on how they can improve and use the feedback constructively.

They Prioritize Physical Well-Being

There is a strong connection between physical health and mental health. Mentally strong individuals prioritize sleep, nutrition, and exercise, knowing that taking care of their bodies helps keep their minds clear and resilient.

Even during stressful periods, they make time for regular exercise and maintain a balanced diet to ensure their physical well-being.

They Cultivate Gratitude

Focusing on what they are grateful for helps mentally healthy people maintain perspective and positivity, even when things are tough. They actively look for the good in every situation, no matter how small.

At the end of a tough day, they will reflect on what went well or what they are thankful for, keeping their mindset grounded and optimistic.

In conclusion, you now know that you may not feel mentally strong because you may never have been taught how to sit with painful feelings and emotions, and process and manage them.

A family history of mental illness and your personality traits can also affect and contribute to how much mental strength you may have.

You also learned 8 key habits and mindsets of mentally strong people like reframing negative thoughts, setting clear boundaries, practicing self-compassion, focusing on what you can control, engaging in mindfulness and meditation, maintaining a growth mindset, prioritizing physical wellbeing, and cultivating gratitude.

I hope you found these 8 key habits and mindsets that help mentally healthy people manage stress and life’s challenges with grace and resilience valuable.

The next time you are facing a stressful situation, try incorporating these habits into your routine and notice the shift in your mindset. 

Stay strong, stay mindful, and most importantly, keep taking care of yourself. 

Next, read why is it so important to have a good mental health for further helpful tips and insights.

What Is A Spiritual Partnership?

If you have attracted spiritual partnership into your life chances are high that you are living a very content, peaceful, and blissful life. What exactly is a spiritual partnership?

A spiritual partnership is consciously created by two equal souls on their unique spiritual soul journey connecting, coming together to help each other grow, heal, and fully support each other with the fulfillment of their soul’s calling, path, and purpose. 

The foundation of such a relationship is to honor each other’s divinity and always act from abundant mutual love, respect, and acceptance.

So, how do you know you are in a spiritual partnership or have found your spiritual partner? Let’s discuss the next 8 spiritual principles to look for in a spiritual partnership.  

8 spiritual principles for spiritual partnership 

Here are 8 essential spiritual principles that will guide you in finding a relationship rooted in healing, growth, and deep connection. 

These are not just tips; they’re spiritual truths that can help you attract the love you deserve and grow together on your path. Ready to elevate your love life?

1. Mutual Respect for Individual Growth

A spiritually aligned partner understands that personal growth is essential for both individuals in the relationship. They respect your journey and encourage you to grow into the best version of yourself, without trying to control or mold you into someone else.

Respect for personal growth ensures that both partners can evolve without feeling restricted or held back, leading to a dynamic, ever-evolving relationship. 

2. Emotional Availability and Vulnerability

A spiritually grounded partner is emotionally open and vulnerable. They are not afraid to share their true feelings, admit weaknesses, or express their fears and desires. This deepens trust and connection.

Emotional availability creates a safe space for both partners to heal old wounds and grow closer, building trust and intimacy.

3. A Commitment to Healing (Themselves and Each Other)

Healing is a lifelong process. A partner who is committed to their healing journey, and yours, is essential. 

They understand that unresolved trauma or emotional baggage can hold both of you back, so they are committed to inner work, healing practices, and supporting you through yours.

This shared commitment to healing ensures the relationship is a nurturing space for personal and collective growth.

4. Shared Core Values and Life Purpose

While differences can exist, a spiritual connection is strengthened when both partners share similar core values and life purposes. 

Whether it’s spiritual beliefs, a mission to serve others, or how you want to live your life, aligning on these can lead to greater harmony and focus.

Having shared values and a sense of purpose allows you both to support each other’s life goals and create a partnership where both are working towards a common vision.

5. Non-Attachment and Freedom

A spiritually evolved partner practices non-attachment—meaning they love deeply but do not try to possess or control. 

They give you the freedom to be your authentic self and respect your autonomy, knowing that true love thrives when both individuals are free to grow and evolve.

Non-attachment creates a healthy space for love to flourish without the chains of dependency, control, or jealousy.

6. Forgiveness and Compassion

Nobody is perfect, and mistakes will happen. A partner with a strong spiritual foundation embraces forgiveness and compassion as essential components of a healthy relationship. 

They understand that holding onto grudges or anger only leads to separation and suffering.

Practicing forgiveness and compassion fosters a safe environment for growth and allows both partners to move past challenges with love and understanding.

7. Conscious Communication

A spiritually aware partner understands the importance of mindful, conscious communication. They listen without judgment, speak with kindness, and resolve conflicts through understanding, not anger. They value clarity and honesty in every conversation.

Conscious communication prevents misunderstandings, deepens emotional connection, and allows for healthy conflict resolution, helping the relationship thrive.

8. Presence and Mindfulness

A partner who is spiritually present is fully engaged at the moment with you. They practice mindfulness in the relationship, showing up with their full attention, love, and care. 

They value the time spent together and are aware of the importance of being present for one another.

Mindfulness fosters deeper intimacy and helps you both stay grounded in your connection, leading to a more peaceful, harmonious relationship.

In conclusion you now know that a spiritual partnership is consciously created by two equal souls on their unique spiritual soul journey connecting, coming together to help each other grow, heal, and fully support each other with the fulfillment of their soul’s calling, path, and purpose. 

You also learnt about the 8 spiritual principles that are essential to form a spiritual partnership. These principles form the foundation for a partnership that fosters not just love, but mutual growth, healing, and spiritual evolution.

Relationships can be the greatest catalysts for personal growth and healing when grounded in the right spiritual principles. 

By seeking out these 8 qualities in a partner, you’re not just setting yourself up for a deep connection, but also for a love that evolves and transforms both of you. 

Remember, growth is a journey, and finding someone who walks that path with you is one of life’s greatest blessings. 

If you found this article helpful, make sure to share it with others who are also seeking a deeper, more meaningful and loving partnership.

Together, we can elevate the way we live and grow. Until next time, keep shining and evolving!

Next, read why are healthy romantic relationships important for further helpful tips and insights.

Can Addictions Affect Relationships?

Chances are high that you know someone who has or had unhealthy addictions. How were they around their loved ones? Can addictions affect relationships?

Addictions can affect all of the addict’s closest and loving relationships.  It causes an individual to destroy their life by losing control over themselves as they prioritize, obsess, and desperately try to fulfill their craving for the thing that they are addicted to like drugs, alcohol, smoking over and above everything else and get consumed by it. 

It prevents them from functioning and living a productive, purposeful life and makes them emotionally unavailable to their loved ones. They destroy their closest relationships by increasing the chances of conflict, and violence.

So, you may be wondering why addictions happen. Let’s find out the answer to this question by discussing 10 possible reasons why people form addictions.

10 Reasons Why People Form Addictions

Most of the people who are struggling with addictions do not realize that they are stuck in a destructive cycle. Whether it’s an addiction to substances, bad habits, or behaviors. 

Here are 10 major reasons why most people form addictions that are not good for them. This isn’t about blame-it’s about understanding so we can break free from the patterns that hold us back. 

Emotional Pain And Trauma

People often turn to addictive behaviors to numb emotional pain from past trauma, unresolved grief, or loss. Addiction becomes a coping mechanism to escape deep emotional wounds.

Learn to sit with your pain and figure out where it is coming from and how you can begin your emotional healing journey.

Lack Of Emotional Regulation Skills

Many people never learn healthy ways to manage their emotions, like stress, anger, or anxiety. Addictions offer a quick, albeit unhealthy, way to avoid uncomfortable feelings.

Learn to figure out what is triggering you to feel a certain way and why so that you can begin to heal.

Social Pressure And Cultural Norms

Social environments can push people toward addictive behaviors, especially in cultures where drinking, smoking, or certain behaviors are normalized as part of social life.  

You do not have to blindly follow any cultural and family norms and rules that do not serve you and distract you from fulfilling your purpose. 

When you are intoxicated and have no control over yourself you cannot act in alignment with your soul qualities and fulfill your purpose. You have to take care of your body because your soul is housed in your body right now.  

Always remember that you are strong enough to say no to those things that are not good for you and will prevent you to fulfill your purpose that you came on this earth for.

Escapism From Life’s Pressures

When life becomes overwhelming due to work, relationships, or financial stress some turn to addictions as a form of escape. It provides temporary relief from feeling stuck or hopeless. 

Learn how to cope and manage life stressors by practicing gratitude, staying grounded and present, and by having a regular meditation practice.2

Instant Gratification Culture

We live in a world of instant gratification, where quick fixes are available at the tap of a button. Addictions often provide an immediate “reward”, making it hard for people to delay satisfaction. 

You have to work and figure out what is causing the pain and begin to heal that area of your life so you do not feel the pain anymore instead of seeking Band-Aid Solutions like relying on addictions and just forgetting about the pain temporarily.

Genetics And Family History

Addictions can have a genetic component. If addiction runs in families, individuals may have a predisposition, making them more susceptible to developing harmful habits. Without Proper mental health support addiction can feel like the only option. 

Just because you have been predisposed to a gene does not mean it will express itself and you will form the same addiction. The genes have to have the right environment to be able to express themselves.

You are a powerful soul and you can do anything you put your mind to including stopping any kind of addiction that is harmful.

Feelings Of Loneliness Or Isolation

Addiction can stem from deep loneliness or a lack of connection with others. People turn to substances or behaviors as a way to fill the emotional void left by a lack of meaningful relationships. 

You can make friends and socialize with other people. Figure out where to meet like-minded people. 

Low Self-Worth Or Identity Struggles

When people struggle with low self-esteem or identity issues, they may rely on addictive behaviors to cope with feelings of inadequacy or failure, using addiction to mask deeper insecurities. 

Know that you are special otherwise, you wouldn’t be here.  You are here to fulfill a purpose that you have been trusted with and built perfectly for by your creator.  

Boredom And Lack Of Purpose

Without a sense of purpose or direction, people may develop addictions out of sheer boredom. Addictions can provide a temporary sense of excitement or focus, though it often leads to long-term dissatisfaction. 

Stop wasting your life. Discover, develop your purpose, and deploy it in service of others using your unique gifts should give you plenty of excitement because you are here to fulfill a purpose and help certain people with a solution that only you can. 

Unresolved Mental Health Issues

Many people with underlying mental health conditions like depression, anxiety, or PTSD turn to addiction as a way to self-medicate. Without proper mental health support, addiction can feel like the only option.

Know that you are bigger than any challenge out there. You don’t need to turn to addictions that are not good for you. 

Connect to your creator, meditate, practice mindfulness and gratitude instead of turning to addictions that are not good for you which could lead to physical and mental health issues.

In conclusion, you now know that addictions can affect all of the addict’s closest and loving relationships.  It causes an individual to lose control over themselves as they prioritize, obsess, and desperately try to fulfill their craving for the thing that they are addicted to like drugs, alcohol, and smoking over and above everything else and get consumed by it. 

It prevents them from functioning and living a productive, purposeful life and makes them emotionally unavailable to their loved ones. They end up destroying their lives by increasing the chances of conflict, violence, and breakdown of their closest relationships. 

You also know the 10 reasons why people form addictions like emotional pain and trauma, lack of emotional regulation skills, social pressure and cultural norms, escapism from life’s pressures, instant gratification culture, genetics, and family history, feelings of loneliness or isolation, low self-worth or identity struggles, boredom and lack of purpose and unresolved mental health issues.

Addiction is not just about the substances or behaviors we turn to it is about the deeper reasons we seek comfort in those habits. From emotional pain to societal pressures, the causes are complex but not insurmountable. 

By understanding these 10 reasons, we can take the first step toward breaking free from the chains that keep us bound. Remember, it is never too late to regain control of your life, your health, and your happiness. 

Let’s keep spreading awareness and supporting each other in the journey toward freedom.

Next, read is it okay to feel lost in life for further helpful insights and tips.

Why Do I Not Feel Loved?

Love, a deep intense feeling of affection is one of the best feelings you can ever experience. Every human being deserves to experience this amazing feeling throughout their life journey. 

However, unfortunately, many people do not feel loved and constantly ask themselves the same question repeatedly: “Why do I not feel loved?”

You do not feel loved because you probably have low self-esteem and image and as a result think and believe that you are not worth loving.  

One of the biggest reasons you feel that way is because you may have had experiences as a child where your emotional needs were not met.  

You often felt that you had to prove to others that you are worthy and deserving of their love by acting a certain way that was pleasing and acceptable to them.

So, you may be wondering how to stop feeling not loved. The good news is you can begin your healing journey and begin feeling loved by reminding yourself of the unconditional love that your creator always has for you. Let’s discuss that next.

How Do You Stop Feeling Not Loved?

Life can be challenging, and it’s easy to feel lost or unloved in the midst of it all. We often struggle and feel like we are all alone and no one cares about us. 

The truth is your creator loves you deeply and there are signs of this love all around you. You have to believe this fact without a doubt and know just where to look. 

Here are 8 signs that will leave you with no doubt that you are cherished and loved by your creator. 

You Are Surrounded By Beauty

Have you ever paused to notice the beauty of a sunrise, or sunset, the intricate details of flowers, snowflakes, or the calming sound of rain? 

These everyday miracles are gentle reminders of your creator’s love, showing you that this world was designed with you in mind, to bring you joy and peace.

You Have An Inner Voice Always Guiding You

Your intuition, gut feeling, is your creator’s way of speaking to you and lovingly guiding you through life’s challenges. 

When you learn to listen to it and begin to follow it you are accepting and turning to your divine connection with your creator that is showing you that you are not alone and just how much you are cared for. 

You Experience Serendipity

Have you ever encountered a coincidence that felt too perfect to be random? Whether it’s meeting the right person at the right time or finding exactly what you need when you least expect it, these serendipitous moments are your Creator’s way of showing love and guidance. 

You Are Given Second Chances

We all make mistakes, but your Creator’s love is shown in the countless opportunities you get to start over, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Every new day is a sign of that unconditional love.

You Feel A Sense Of Purpose

When you feel driven by a purpose, no matter how big or small, that’s your Creator reminding you that your life has meaning. You were created perfectly with intention, and your contributions to the world are valued and needed. 

You Are Surrounded By Love Through Others

The love you receive from friends, family, and even strangers serves as a reflection of your Creator’s love for you. When you are shown kindness and compassion, it’s a direct message that you are loved and cherished.  

You Have Overcome Challenges

Think about the tough times you have faced and how you have come through them stronger. Your resilience is a testament to your Creator’s love, showing that you are being watched over and supported every step of the way. 

You Receive Unexplained Moments Of Peace

Amid the chaos, have you ever felt a sudden, overwhelming sense of peace? These moments are not random; they are a sign that your creator is with you, offering comfort and reminding you that you are never alone. 

In conclusion, you now know you do not feel loved because you probably have a low self-esteem and image and as a result think and believe that you are not worth loving. 

One of the biggest reasons you feel that way is because you may have had experiences as a child where your emotional needs were not met. 

You often felt that you had to prove to others that you are worthy and deserving of their love by acting a certain way that was pleasing and acceptable to them.

You also learned of the truth that your creator loves you deeply and there are signs to prove that fact like you are surrounded by beauty, you have an inner voice always guiding you, you experience serendipity.

Also, you are given second chances, you feel a sense of purpose, you are surrounded by love through others, you have overcome challenges and you receive unexplained moments of peace.

These signs are all around you, constantly reminding you that you are loved more than you know. Whenever you feel lost or unloved, come back to these reminders and let them fill your heart with peace and assurance. 

Your Creator’s love is ever present, guiding you, protecting you, and helping you grow into the person you are meant to be. 

Remember, you are never alone, and you are deeply loved. I hope these signs bring you the comfort and joy you deserve.

Next, read do I have a life purpose for further helpful tips and insights.

Do I Have A Life Purpose?

Most of us are so busy with our day-to-day lives that our priority is to spend most of our day trading our time to make the most money possible. 

We seldom take the time to ask ourselves deeper questions like, “Why am I here? “What is my purpose for being here? Does everyone have a life purpose? Do I have a life purpose? “

You most definitely, like everyone, have a life purpose, or you would not be on this earth right now. I believe the general purpose of every human being is to learn, grow, and serve others by using their unique gifts and natural talents, which they have been blessed with by their creator. 

One of the most important gifts you can give yourself is to spend some time in the quiet because all of your answers including why you are here are within you and your soul knows exactly why you are. 

You will be able to discover your actual purpose and why you are here right now so that you can take the time to develop it, and then deploy it in service of others especially if you want to live a fulfilling, joyful, and inspired life. 

Lack of meaning and purpose in life can affect all aspects of life, especially your mental health, and can cause you to not feel confident, or motivated to get out of bed and start your day enthusiastically with gratitude and look forward to learning, growing, and serving others. 

Next, let’s discuss some undeniable signs that you were created for a purpose and that you are on the right path in case you were wondering how you know and be sure.

10 Signs You Were Created For A Purpose

I am sharing 10 reasons that prove, without a doubt, that you were created for a purpose. These reasons will help you see that your life has value, meaning, and direction, even if you can’t always see it yourself.

You Have Unique Talents And Gifts

No one else in the world has your exact combination of skills, talents, and gifts. These are not random-they were given to you for a reason, to contribute something special to the world.

You Feel A Pull Toward Something Greater

Have you ever felt a strong urge or calling to do something meaningful? That’s your inner compass, pointing you toward your purpose. This feeling is a clear sign that your life is meant to make an impact. 

Your Life Experiences Shape You

The highs and lows you have experienced are not just random events. They have shaped you into the person you are today, equipping you with the wisdom and strength to fulfill your purpose. 

You Have A Desire To Help Others

Your desire to make a difference in the lives of others is a powerful indicator of your purpose. This innate drive to serve and uplift those around you is a key part of why are here. 

You Are Drawn To Certain Causes Or Ideas

When you find yourself passionate about certain causes or ideas, that’s a clue to your purpose. These passions align with the work you are meant to do and the change you are meant to create. Know and trust that you have been created perfectly for that purpose.

You Find Joy In Specific Activities

The things that bring you joy and fulfillment are not accidental. They are directly tied to your purpose, guiding you toward the work that will bring you the most satisfaction and impact.  

You Have Overcome Significant Challenges

The challenges you have faced and overcome are not just obstacles-they are part of your purpose. They have prepared you to help others facing similar struggles and to use your experience to make a difference. 

You Inspire And Uplift Others

If others have ever told you that you inspire or uplift them, it’s because you are living in alignment with your purpose. Your actions and words have a ripple effect, touching lives in ways you may not even realize.  

You Have Dreams And Visions Of The Future

The dreams and visions that keep you up at night are not just fantasies-they are glimpses of your purpose. They show you what’s possible and what you are capable of achieving. 

If dreams and desires are planted in you then know that there’s a path for you to be able to make them your reality otherwise you wouldn’t even be thinking about them. 

Know without a doubt that you can achieve anything that is in alignment with your purpose. You are a powerful soul that is bigger than any challenge that you may have to face.

You Feel A Deep Connection To Something Greater

Whether it is a connection to a higher power, the universe, or the greater good, this connection is a clear sign that you were created for a purpose. It’s a reminder that you are part of something bigger than yourself. 

In conclusion, you now know you most definitely have a life purpose, or you would not be on this earth right now. I believe the general purpose of every human being is to learn, grow, and serve others by using their unique gifts and natural talents, which they have been blessed with by their creator. 

You also learned about the 10 undeniable signs that you were created for a purpose like you have unique talents and gifts, you feel a pull toward something greater, your life experiences shape you, you have a desire to help others, and you are drawn to certain causes or ideas.

Also, you find joy in specific activities, you have overcome significant challenges, you inspire and uplift others, you have dreams and visions of the future, and you feel a deep connection to something greater.

I hope these undeniable signs have proven and shown you the incredible purpose that lies within you. You now understand and know without a doubt that your life is not a series of random events. It’s a journey with a purpose. 

Each of these reasons are signs that you were created to fulfill a unique role in this world. Remember, your purpose may not always be clear, but it’s there, guiding you every step of the way. 

Trust in your journey, follow your passions, and know that you matter, are enough, and are here for a reason

Next, read does everyone have a life purpose for further helpful insights and tips.

Why Should Parents Not Choose Their Child’s Career?

Every parent wants their child to live the happy, successful life of their dreams and therefore, has the best of intentions to support and guide them in making the right decisions so that they can achieve that. 

Parents should, however, never choose their child’s career. Why?

Parents should not choose their child’s career for them because it takes away from their autonomy, and empowerment to explore, reason, rationalize, and make the best confident decisions for their life based.

Your child knows who they are, their strengths, natural talents, interests and what gives them inner joy.

When a child is pressured into pursuing a career that they do not enjoy and like it can lead to unhappiness, regrets, resentment, stress, lack of motivation, anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues. 

If you are a parent, you may be wondering how you can guide and support your child through career decisions and choices. Let’s discuss that next.

8 Tips To Guide Your Child With Their Career Choice

You must create an environment in your home and in your relationship with your child where you can be approached and trusted to have an open, unbiased dialogue and discussion. 

You can share your opinions about their potential career choice based on your life experiences and listen open-mindedly to their reasons for wanting to pursue their chosen career route. 

Here are 8 tips that you can use to advise and guide your child to make the best career decision for themselves so that they can live a joyful, fulfilling, purposeful, meaningful, prosperous, and abundant life of their dreams. 

Follow What Excites You, Not Just What Pays Well

Passion fuels perseverance. When your work excites you, challenges become opportunities, and you will find the energy to push through even the toughest days. Money is important, but it is not everything. True fulfillment comes from doing what you love. 

Follow a career path that excites you because that is going to lead you to your purpose and a joyful, fulfilling, and meaningful life. 

You have inner wisdom, natural talents, and unique gifts that your creator has equipped you to enable you to fulfill your purpose within a career that you choose.

Money and prosperity will become a byproduct if you fulfill your purpose by serving and helping other people with their problems by using your gifts and talents. 

Learn Continuously And Adapt

The world is constantly changing and so should you. Never stop learning, whether through formal education or life experiences. The ability to adapt is one of the most valuable skills you can have. It keeps you relevant and opens up endless opportunities. 

If you are growing and learning you will be able to serve your purpose in a bigger and better way. You can learn and acquire education in many different ways today like reading books, blogs like this one, taking online courses, listening to podcasts, and watching videos on YouTube. 

We live in a world where education is very easy to obtain and it is up to you to seek it, learn, and always remain curious.

Seek Balance, Not Just Success

A successful career is great, but not at the cost of your health, relationships, or happiness. Strive for a balanced life where your career supports your well-being, not just the other way around. 

Remember, success is measured by the quality of your life, not just the quantity in your bank account. Work should not be the only place where you derive your identity from. 

Work is one part of your life but there are many others to consider and nourish like your health, spirituality, and relationships. Make sure that you are well-rounded and not neglecting any area of your life. 

Value Relationships And Network Wisely

No one achieves alone. Build meaningful relationships and network with people who inspire you. Your connections can open doors, provide support, and help you grow in ways you never imagined. 

You will become exactly like the people you hang out with so make sure that you are choosing the right relationships, and network of people to hang out, associate, and partner with.

Trust Your Intuition

Your inner voice is a powerful loving guide. If something does not feel right, trust your intuition often knows what your mind hasn’t processed. In moments of doubt, listen to that gut feeling. It’s there to protect and guide you. 

Don’t Be Afraid To Take Risks

Playing it safe might seem comfortable, but the biggest rewards often come from taking calculated risks. Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone whether it’s changing careers, starting a business, or moving to a new place. These are the moments that lead to true growth. 

Align Your Career With Your Values

A career that conflicts with your core values will eventually lead to dissatisfaction. Know what you stand for and seek out work that aligns with those principles. This alignment brings a deep sense of fulfillment and ensures that your work feels meaningful. 

Whenever you compromise your values, ethics, and morals you are probably not aligning with your soul’s calling, purpose, and path.  

Let your soul be in the driver’s seat and always do things that are aligned with your values, vision, and purpose because that will lead to a meaningful fulfilling life. 

Remember, You Can Always Change Your Path

Life is a journey, not a straight line. If you find yourself unhappy or unfulfilled, it’s never too late to make a change. Your career is not set in stone. 

Your career path is not set in stone, and you have the power to reinvent yourself at any point. Flexibility is key to long-term happiness and success. 

Never be fearful to try things and if you do not enjoy your career choice you can always change it and try something different. Always remember life is always happening for you.

In conclusion, you now know parents should not choose their child’s career for them because it takes away from their autonomy, and empowerment to explore, reason, rationalize, and make the best confident decisions for their life based.

Your child knows who they are, their strengths, natural talents, interests and what gives them inner joy.

You also know that when a child is pressured into pursuing a career that they do not enjoy and like it can lead to unhappiness, regrets, resentment, stress, lack of motivation, anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues. 

You learned 8 tips that you can use to advise and guide your child to make the best career decision for themselves so that they can live a joyful, fulfilling, purposeful, meaningful, prosperous, and abundant life of their dreams.

I hope these tips resonate with you and were helpful and give you some guidance to help your child navigate their career choices. Remember, the ultimate goal is not just to build a career but to build a life that’s rich in purpose, joy, and abundance.

Encourage your child to follow their passions, stay true to their values, and always keep learning. With these principles in mind, they will be well on their way to a fulfilling and prosperous life. 

Please share this article with anyone who might need these words of wisdom.

Next, read are schools good for all kids? for further insights and helpful tips.

Is It Okay To Feel Lost In Life?

Most of us are living our lives by default and hoping to check the boxes for achieving the timely goals and milestones that society has told us to chase to be deemed successful. 

We may feel like we have followed the path of promised success, but we often find ourselves feeling unhappy, empty, and lost in life. Is it okay to feel lost in life?

It is normal and okay for all of us to feel lost sometimes because life is a journey with its many ups and downs that serve and guide us. 

You may be feeling empty, sad, unhappy, or lost because you are not satisfied with your current life, job or because you just experienced an adverse situation or a major devastating event or change in your life, like the loss of a loved one going through a breakup, divorce, death, or a job loss.

Recognizing and becoming aware of this feeling and emotion is often a pivotal point to begin your journey of self-discovery, growing, adapting, and changing your life, situation, or how you process and deal with these challenges better. 

Always proceed with a lot of self-compassion and love, and remember that change can be taxing emotionally, physically, and mentally and that it is never linear.

It is important to remind yourself that you are a soul that is temporarily here on this earth and body right now to fulfill a purpose. 

You are never really alone and are always connected to your loving creator. Let’s discuss the next heartfelt messages from your creator that would instill hope and comfort when you feel empty, unhappy, and lost.

10 Heartfelt Messages From Your Creator

It is quite normal for you to feel empty, and heavy and struggle to find meaning in life. it’s okay to feel this way because everyone does at some point. 

Here are 10 things your creator would say to you if they could, right now, in this very moment. 

You Are Loved, More Than You Know

When you feel alone, know that love surrounds you. You were created with a purpose, and that love is always there, even when you cannot feel it. 

Your creation would like you to know that you are enough, always supported and loved deeply and unconditionally.
You matter because if you didn’t you wouldn’t be here.  

You are here on this earth for a reason and purpose that you are trusted with to fulfill which you have been perfectly created for. 

Your Pain Has Meaning

The struggles that you face are not pointless. They are shaping refining and making you stronger so that you can fulfill your purpose in a bigger way and serve the people that you are meant to serve. 

It is hard to see the bigger picture right now, however, trust that your pain is not in vain. 

You Are Not Alone

Even when the world feels empty, you are never truly alone. Your creator is with you, watching over you, ready to support and guide you, if you just reach out. 

Learn to spend time in quiet connect to your soul, and intuition, which is your loving inner guidance and wisdom. Connect to your creator and access your creator’s strength, intelligence, and power. 

This Too Shall Pass

Whatever you are going through, it’s temporary. Life is constantly changing, and this moment of despair will eventually give way to something new and better. 

Learn the lessons that the universe is trying to teach you and get stronger and wiser. Share and teach these lessons with others. 

You Were Created For A Reason

There is a unique purpose for your life, something only you can accomplish. Even if you have not found it yet, trust that it’s there, waiting to be discovered. 

There is no human being on this Earth that does not have a purpose.  Everybody that’s here has a purpose or you wouldn’t be here. Discover, develop, and deploy your purpose in service of others and find your joy. 

Learn to go inward, and connect to your soul, inner wisdom, and creator because they know exactly why you are here. You have been trusted with a purpose to fulfill and make sure you do not leave that purpose unfulfilled. 

You Are Stronger Than You Think

The challenges you face are not meant to break you but to show you just how strong you are. Your strength is far greater than you give yourself credit for. 

You have probably already overcome lots of challenges in life. Let that serve as proof to you that you are bigger and stronger than any issues and challenges that you may encounter in life. 

You have come from a creator who is powerful and you’re just like your creator.  You have the intelligence, power, wisdom, and strength within you to get through any challenges that you will come across or encounter. 

Your Feelings Are Valid

It’s okay to feel sad, angry, or frustrated. Your emotions are real and valid. Don’t be afraid to express them fully, and to let them pass. 

Examine and understand your feelings and figure out why you’re getting triggered and what are your emotions trying to tell you. 

There Is Beauty In Imperfection

You do not have to be perfect to be loved or to be worthy. There is beauty in your flaws, in your struggles, in the very things that make you human. 

Always remember that you don’t have to compromise who you are and what you do to receive and feel loved. 

You are here to fulfill a purpose and as long as you live a life that’s in alignment with your soul and your soul qualities then do not worry about anybody else who does not accept you. You were created perfectly for your purpose.

You Are Worthy Of Happiness

Never doubt your worth. You deserve to be happy, to find joy in life, and to experience all the good things it has to offer. It is okay to enjoy life on this earth that has been created beautifully for you to experience. 

When you aspire to live a purposeful life in service of others you will experience bliss that can only be experienced if you’re fulfilling your purpose. 

Happiness is not a destination it’s a way of being so know that you can choose to be happy right now in this moment. 

It Is Okay To Rest

You do not have to have it all figured out today. It’s okay to take a step back, to rest, and to give yourself time to heal. Your journey doesn’t have to be a rat race. 

Build up your energy and vitality so that you can serve your purpose.  Spend some time alone in the quiet, experience peace, listen to your inner wisdom, and ask for guidance. 

You don’t have to subscribe to the hustle-and-grind way of life that society says for you to be successful.  Learn to live in ease and flow with the universe and serve your purpose.  

You can begin to take action and move toward your purposeful path and then be open to receiving guidance to as confirmation that you are on the right path.  Be in a flow with your life instead of just hustling and grinding which will eventually lead to burning out and getting sick. 

In conclusion, you now know it is normal and okay for all of us to feel lost sometimes because life is a journey with its many ups and downs that serve and guide us. 

You may be feeling empty, sad, unhappy, or lost because you are not satisfied with your current life, job or because you just experienced an adverse situation or a major devastating event or change in your life, like the loss of a loved one going through a breakup, divorce, death, or a job loss.

Life can be incredibly tough, and it’s okay to feel lost sometimes. But remember, these messages from your creator are always there for you to hold onto. 

Whenever you feel like lacks meaning, or you are struggling to find happiness, come back to these words.

You are loved, and worthy and your life has a purpose. Take care of yourself, and remember that brighter days are ahead.

Next, read what is a life challenge? for further helpful insights and tips.