Who Determines Your Self-Worth?
Who Determines Your Self-Worth?
One of the most empowering beliefs you need to have to live your very best life is that you are valuable and worthy.
Self-worth, which is your internal sense of being good enough and being loveable is important because it determines and impacts the quality of your life and all of your relationships. So, who determines your self-worth?
You determine and are 100% responsible for creating your self-worth, which is heavily influenced by who you are on the inside, your perceptions, values, beliefs, life experiences, the quality of your relationships, and mental and physical well-being.
If you have good self-worth, you feel secure, have a sense of control over yourself and your environment, are resilient, and confidently living an authentic soul-aligned life.
If you have a low self-worth know that it may be stemming from your stressful life experiences and events like abusive relationships, financial struggles, and unhealed and unresolved trauma from your childhood when you were very easily influenced by your guardians and peers.
So, you may wonder how you can develop a good self-worth despite the type of life you have lived, are living, or will live in the future. Let’s discuss that next.
How Do You Develop Your Self-Worth?
We live in a world that often makes us feel like we have to do more, achieve more, or be more to be considered worthy. The truth is the fact that you are already worthy because you exist and are here on this earth at this moment.
You do not need to earn it or prove it. Let’s discuss 8 reasons to remind yourself why your worth is undeniable just as you are, right here, right now.
You Are A Unique Expression Of Life
You are an Individualized expression of your creator. There is no one else like you. Your thoughts, feelings, experiences, and energy are unique in the universe.
Your individuality is a gift to the world, and just by being you, you bring something irreplaceable to the collective.
You Were Born With A Purpose
The fact that you are alive means you are part of a greater design. You do not need to search for worthiness; it’s already inside you, simply because you have a role to play in this world.
Your purpose is not about doing; it is about being. Your existence is meaningful just as it is.
Spend your precious time discovering your purpose, developing and deploying it in service of others. If you did not have a purpose you would not be here.
Just being here on this earth at this moment should serve as your proof without a doubt that you are worthy, enough, and matter.
You Are Connected To Something Bigger
Whether you call it the universe, spirit, or life itself, you are connected to a greater source. That connection alone is proof of your inherent worth. You are part of the infinite web of life, and your presence adds to the beauty and flow of the universe.
You can connect to and access your creator’s divine intelligence, strength, and power. You are a powerful, wise, divine soul. You were created with everything that you need to fulfill your purpose on this earth.
You Are Constantly Evolving
Every day, you grow, learn, and evolve. Your journey alone is a testament to your value, regardless of where you are on that path. Your self-worth does not depend on reaching some ultimate goal. It is in the process, in the unfolding of your life.
Any challenges and difficulties that you overcome are developing and preparing you so that you can fulfill your purpose in a bigger and better way because ultimately every soul is here to grow and then to serve others.
You Hold Space For Others
Just by being yourself, you influence others. You provide comfort, love, and support to those around you, whether you realize it or not. Your energy, your presence, and your love touch the lives of others in ways that can’t be measured. That impact makes you incredibly worthy.
When you live a soul-aligned life all living things including when in your field of energy and within your aura feel better because they feel peace, love, joy, and harmony which are your soul qualities. You can impact people without saying a word and just by being.
You Have The Power To Create And Heal
Every thought, action, and word you share has the power to create something new or heal something broken. That creative force inside you is a testament to your value.
Whether you create art, foster relationships, or simply offer a kind word, you are constantly creating beauty and healing in the world.
Just like your creator, you are here to create. Create unique solutions to people’s problems based on your purpose and the unique gifts that your creator has blessed you with and make this world better because you came here.
You Experience Life In Your Own Way
Your experiences, emotions, and perspectives are uniquely yours. No one else can live life through your eyes, and that’s what makes your presence here so valuable. The way you navigate life your joys, and struggles adds a distinct flavor to the world. That makes you irreplaceable.
No one else can come up with solutions to some people’s problems and you are here to help. They will only resonate with you and you have been given unique gifts by your creator to help you do so.
You Deserve Love Just By Being
You do not need to do anything to earn love. You deserve love simply because you exist. The very fact that you are here means you are worthy of love, from yourself and others.
Loving yourself starts with knowing that you are worthy of love for no other reason than being alive. This acceptance is the foundation of self-worth.
Always know without a doubt that you are worthy, and enough no matter what you look like, including your color, gender, status, title, or race, know that you matter and every soul matters.
In conclusion, you now know that you determine and are responsible for creating your self-worth which is very heavily influenced by who you are on the inside, your perceptions, values, beliefs, life experiences, relationships, mental, and physical health.
You also know how to develop your worthiness which is by reminding yourself that you are a unique expression of life, were born with a purpose, connected to something bigger, constantly evolving, can hold space for others, have the power to create and heal, experience life in your own way and deserve love just by being.
I hope you now know without a doubt that you don’t need to strive for worthiness; it’s already yours. It’s time to stop doubting yourself and start embracing the truth that you are enough. Your existence has meaning, your presence is valuable, and your worth is infinite.
Remember, you are worthy of love, peace, and happiness just as you are. Until next time, stay mindful and stay empowered.
Next, read can childhood affect your adulthood? for further helpful insights and tips.