What Happens When You Do Not Feel Good Enough?
What Happens When You Do Not Feel Good Enough?
We know without a doubt that we matter and are enough when we are first born however as we interact and live with people around us we begin to feel the pressure and weight of all their expectations which we find impossible to meet.
We are compared to or start comparing ourselves to others, realize we are different, and as a result, many of us start believing that we do not matter and are not good enough. What happens when you do not feel good enough?
When you do not feel good enough you can suffer from low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, and play it small in life because you believe that you do not deserve the many pleasures that your best life has to offer you.
You would not dream big and aspire to live an abundant, purposeful, and fulfilling life that you were created to live.
So, how do you deal with not feeling enough or like you matter? Next, let’s discuss some ways you can start living differently by believing and knowing the absolute truth that you matter and are enough or you would not be here right now.
8 Ways To Change Your life By Believing You Are Enough
What if starting today you stopped doubting yourself? What if you knew deep in your soul that you matter, have a purpose, and are already enough? Imagine how differently you’d live your life.
Here are 8 powerful ways your life would change if you fully embraced these truths. This isn’t just about motivation it’s about transforming how you see yourself and your place in this world.
Stop Seeking Approval From Others
You would stop trying to earn others’ validation when you believe you are enough. You will make decisions based on what is true to you, not what pleases the crowd.
People do not have to understand and approve of you and your purpose. Why you are here is between you and your creator whose individualized expression you have been created to be.
You have been given unique gifts which you are to use here to fulfill your purpose. You are here to please your creator and help and serve others.
Pursue Your Purpose Without Fear
Knowing you have a purpose gives you the courage to take risks. You would finally chase those dreams you’ve put on hold because you’d trust that they are meant for you.
You are a powerful and wise soul that has been built perfectly to fulfill a purpose and your life has infinite possibilities. The universe will always have your back. It will guide you to know and trust that you can pursue your purpose confidently without any fear.
Set Boundaries Without Guilt
You would stop saying yes to things that drain you. Instead, you would protect your time and energy, knowing your well-being is just as important as anyone else’s.
Begin saying no to distractions and stop being around toxic people who drain your energy. Spend energy on discovering, developing, and deploying your purpose in the service of others.
A life without fulfillment of your purpose is not a successful life and cannot lead to joy no matter how much money you end up accumulating.
You are a soul that is here for a purpose that needs to be a priority before any of your otherworldly duties and roles like mother, occupation, status, and all the responsibilities that come with the titles you have on this earth. They should never be prioritized over your purpose and the work that you came here to do.
Treat Yourself With Love And Compassion
Imagine speaking to yourself with kindness, not criticism. Believing you are enough means forgiving your mistakes and celebrating your progress.
Know that you are here to grow and therefore there are no mistakes only lessons and guidance for growth from the loving universe.
Stop Comparing Yourself To Others
A comparison would lose its grip on you. You’d understand that your path is unique, and someone else’s success does not take away from yours.
You have been created perfectly with all the wisdom that you need for your purpose so spend your energy focusing on why you are here and fulfilling your purpose before it’s too late.
Focus On What You Have To Give
Believing you matter shifts your focus from ‘What can I get?’ to ‘What can I give?’ You would see how your presence and actions positively impact others.
Stay focused on using your gifts which is an aspect of your creator’s creativity to serve others and bettering their lives. Always strive to live with people better than when you first found them. Embody and live your soul’s qualities like love, peace, and joy.
Show Up Authentically
No more hiding parts of yourself. You would bring your full, unapologetic self to the table because you’d trust that who you are is exactly who you’re meant to be.
Remember you are a soul that is here to fulfill a purpose and as long as you are identifying as a soul, your creator’s masterpiece, and an angel you will live a meaningful, purposeful, and fulfilling life of joy.
Find Joy In The Present Moment
Knowing you’re enough lets you stop chasing ‘someday.’ You would find gratitude and fulfillment in the here and now, no longer waiting for external achievements to define your worth.
Enjoy the present moments which are guaranteed because the future is not guaranteed and the past has already happened. Do not regret the past, learn from it and enjoy the present moments gifted to you by your creator.
In conclusion, you now know that when you do not feel good enough you can suffer from low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, and play it small in life because you believe that you do not deserve the many pleasures that your best life has to offer you.
You would not dream big and aspire to live an abundant, purposeful, and fulfilling life that you were created to live.
When you do not feel good enough you will suffer from lower self-esteem, depression, and anxiety, and will play it small because you believe that you do not deserve the many pleasures that your best life has to offer you.
You also learned 8 ways to live life differently by believing you are enough like not seeking approval from others, pursuing your purpose without fear, setting boundaries without guilt, treating yourself with love and compassion, stopping comparing yourself to others, focusing on what you have to give, showing up authentically, and finding joy in the present moments.
You were never meant to live in doubt or fear. You matter. You have a purpose. You are enough the way you are. If you lived every day believing this, your life would transform in ways you cannot even imagine.
Next read, Do I have a life purpose for further helpful insight and tips.