Why Do Some People Annoy Us?
Why Do Some People Annoy Us?
Relationships are a very important part of us living our very best fulfilling life however it is not possible to get along with everyone that we come across all the time.
I am sure all of us have encountered people who simply annoy us. Why do some people annoy us?
You will find some people annoying because they do not share your life perspective, values, ethics, and morals. The reason you feel this way is because you believe that everyone ought to be the way you are which is the right way to be.
People can’t be exactly like you are when they have not had the same life experience as you, they don’t have your identity, personality, beliefs, thoughts, feelings, behavior, and habits.
They also may not be okay because of their own life experiences, wounds, and traumas which they may not be aware of or they may not have had the opportunity to heal.
I believe it is important to express gratitude for all the annoying people in your life because they are serving a purpose or you would have not ever come across them.
You may be wondering and asking why do you need to be grateful for the annoying people that you encounter. Let’s discuss the answer to that question next.
7 Reasons To Be Grateful For People Who Annoy You
It is very easy for all of us to be grateful for people who are good to us, that we love, and who find pleasant to deal with.
It is very hard not to get upset and to be grateful for those people that we find annoying and do not like to associate or deal with. Here are seven reasons to be grateful for people who annoy you.
Increase Your Ability To Hear Your Soul
Annoying people make it necessary for you to walk away, spend some time alone in the quiet, examine and ask why are you attracting people like that in your life, and why are you getting triggered by them.
They also help increase your chances of hearing your soul’s whispers and guidance in the quiet instead of listening to your ego’s screams whenever you are in a very distracted setting.
Guide You To A More Aligned Life
Annoying people guide you to live a more aligned life. When you get quiet and start listening to your soul more you will master your energy and stay true to yourself and live a more authentic life, soul-aligned, and empowered life.
Living an authentic soul-aligned life means aligning with your soul’s qualities some which are which are peace, love, joy, purity, divinity, and abundance.
Help You Master An Inner-driven Life
When you take the opportunity to practice staying true to yourself and not reacting to an annoying person you will be empowered to be emotionally independent.
You will become a master at living an inner-driven life instead of letting the outer circumstances and annoying people influence and direct how you live your life.
You will become better able to pause when annoyed by people, maintain your freedom, and learn to respond instead of losing control, reacting instantly, and giving people power over your you and your life.
Help You Decrease Ego-driven Behaviors
An annoying person will help you be aware of, control, and decrease ego-driven behavior and quickly align to your authentic soul-aligned true self.
Your ego will always scream and guide you to behave in alignment to it like retaliating and screaming louder verses your soul which will gently whisper your loving guidance to you to behave in accordance with your true essence and soul’s qualities.
Help You Master Forgiveness
An annoying person will help you practice exercising your forgiveness muscles. When you begin to live life as your true authentic aligned self you will find it easier to forgive others.
When you cannot forgive other people, you end up harming yourself. You create stuck energy in your body which can then possibly lead to other serious harmful health issues.
When the energy in your body does not flow it then blocks all the guidance, and abundance from coming through and eventually prevents you from living your very best fulfilling purposeful life.
Enable You To Grow And Transform
Annoying people also help you grow, transform, and become a better person so that you can serve in a bigger and better way.
The faster you can figure out why you are attracting annoying people in your life, where you are misaligned and not being your true self the faster you can change it and get aligned.
Do a quick check and see what is your current identity, perspective, beliefs, thoughts, feelings, speech, behavior, personality, and habits.
You are a powerful soul and so there is nothing that you cannot be, do, and have. You are completely empowered to create and live your best life of infinite possibilities. You will find as you grow you will get faster from being affected to aligning to your soul.
Act As A Catalyst For Change
Always remember even an annoying tyrannical person in your life is serving a purpose. They help you feel emotions that act as your guide and catalyst for you to transform or recognize a different opportunity and change some aspect of your life like a job, or the physical location of where you live so that you can live your purposeful life and serve people you are meant to serve.
In conclusion, you will find some people annoying because they do not share your life perspective, values, ethics, and morals. The reason you feel this way is because you believe that everyone ought to be the way you are which is the right way to be.
The seven reasons to express gratitude for people who annoy you are they increase your ability to hear your soul’s guidance, guide you to live a more aligned life, help you master living an inner-driven life, help you decrease ego-driven behavior, help you master forgiveness, enable you to grow and act as a catalyst for the required change.
Next, read why is immersing in gratitude important for further helpful tips and insights.